Some married couples are enduring instead of enjoying

Happy New Year, welcome to this new sensitive segment
On this page, we shall be streamlining things that will enhance marriages and how we can make our relationships an enviable union.
Marriage was conceived and ordained by God. Therefore, we need to seek His opinion before walking down the aisle. Oftentimes we have done what we’ve seen others doing without questioning, knowing fully well that everyone’s opinion about marriage can’t be the same; what works for Mr A may not necessarily work for Mr B.

For everyone getting married a divorce was not in view, in the early stage of the marriage never give room for heat-passion, once it is allowed don’t expect sweetness to follow.
Once there is no unison, trouble will start to brew and once upon a time, lovey-dovey turns sour.
The question now, is how does one build a lasting and blissful marital relationship? It is a general notion that marriage is an institution whereby you were given a ‘marriage certificate’ before graduation, once you are in, the learning process starts and you were never expected to graduate.
It is not advisable to stay on a particular method toward building a hassle-free relationship, if, for instance, our parents had always applied the tested principle of tolerance with one another, whenever one party goes angry does not mean the same method will work for us, the truth is that everyone need help as far as you are in a marriage, you need the right information on how to go about it, Adam in the book of Genesis did not ask God for wife, God just felt that it was not good for man (Adam) to be alone and He made him a help mate, the man got what he did not bargain for from God, and man wasn’t given a tutorial on how to manage what he has received, and then, he fell.
The bitter pill is that God gave the man a wife, and the man messed up, then God said, he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord (Proverbs 18:22).
Know that God will not find a wife for man; man will have to do that by himself according to the book of Proverbs. Taking another look at what happened in the book of Genesis, you will realize that God knows about the marriage between Adam and Eve, and yet they face problems in their marital life, that simply means for the fact that you have found your missing ribs does not mean that, your relationship is going to be without problems, except if we are deceiving our selves?
Lots of people are married just like Eve and Adam, God knows about their marriage the same way He knows about Adams, there was confirmation the same way Adam and Eve got theirs, and yet they are experiencing pains day in, and day out, they kept enduring instead of enjoying.
God said my people die for lack of knowledge. The question now is what is the knowledge? Join me as we flow together about the hidden truths of marriage.
See you in the next edition.